If a check-in feels right for this season of your care, we’ll build it together — and I mean together. It’s not a report card, not a food journal to hand in, and definitely not a test. It’s really just a way for me to stay close to what your days are actually like, so that when we sit down together, I already have a sense of where you’ve been and we can spend our time on what matters to you.
I want to be honest with you: keeping a check-in through an eating disorder asks something real of you. There will be days when it’s the last thing you feel like doing, and there will be parts of the ED’s voice that whisper skip this one, round down, nobody needs to see that part. If that happens — and it will — please know it’s not you being weak, or lazy, or bad at recovery. It’s the illness doing exactly what illnesses do. Your job isn’t to outmuscle that voice on your own. Your job is just to let me see what came up, so we can take it on together.